Book 1 Audiobook


Palccoyo - “Rainbow Mountain”

Cusco, Peru

December 5, 2021

Secretly transporting the ashes of her dead husband in a shampoo bottle, SJ travels with Warrior Retreats to Cusco, Peru where she climbs Rainbow Mountain, confronting both the dizzying altitude and her powerlessness in the face of death. 

Chapter 1: The Passage Is A Portal


Chapter 2: In The Blinding Dark

Machu & Huyana Picchu

Cusco, Peru

December 8, 2021

SJ climbs Huyana Picchu, guided (and haunted) by the ghost of her charismatic brother-in-law while revisiting the darkness that claimed his life and threatened hers. 


Chapter 3, Part One: Open Heart Surgery

The Amazon Jungle (Loreto)

Chullachaqui Lodge

November 29, 2021

SJ travels deep into the Amazon jungle for an Ayahuasca ceremony. Her hope? To reunite with her dead husband.  The curandero had other plans.


Chapter 3, Part Two: The Second Ceremony

The Amazon Jungle (Loreto)

Chullachaqui Lodge

November 30, 2021

I hadn’t flown all the way to Peru to spend the night vomiting and shitting myself, unable to truly experience the full power of those magical men. I wanted back in.


Chapter 4: Compassion For Christmas

California, Colorado, O’ahu

The Holidays of 2018 - 2021

Back home in time for the holidays, SJ goes into quarantine and a tailspin, triggered by memories of her husband’s dying wish and the attention of a new man.  


Kuli’ou’ou Ditch Trail,

O’ahu, Hawai’i

January 2022

Wakes and memorials and ashes, oh my! The corpse of a dead pig triggers memories of funeral parlors past, a country wake, a Hollywood memorial, and the marching orders of Mama Ayahuasca.

Chapter 5: A Warmer Kiss


Chapter 6: Dating With My Dead Husband

Ka’iwi Shoreline Trail 

O’ahu, Hawai’i 

February 14, 2022 

SJ reluctantly enters the realm of online dating, cougar culture, and ghosting to discover her dead husband is actually choosing the men she’s allowed to date.


Charleston, West Virginia

February 25th, 2022

After a frantic call from hospice, SJ jumps on a plane back to West Virginia mulling over the family secrets and lineage of mental illness and dementia that separated mothers from daughters for generations.

Chapter 7: Operating Systems


Crabapple to Rattlesnake Trail

Kanawha State Forest

Charleston, West Virginia

March 2nd, 2022

Hiking in West Virginia, SJ revisits the wildness and dangers of her childhood, remembering the freedom of the forest, the family fights and abuse. Thirty years later, with her Mom dying in hospice, she has to admit: she’s still carrying an unspoken hope for reconciliation with her mother. Will a moment of lucidity finally bring closure for their troubled relationship?

Chapter 8: A House Made Of Dirt


Kanawha River Trail

Charleston, WV

March 4th, 2022

Feeling a surprising call to forgiveness, SJ visits her father's grave where she, instead, makes the decision to stop keeping his secrets.

Chapter 9: Dead Dad. Birth Mom.


Teaberry Trail

Kanawha State Forest

Charleston, WV

March 5, 2022

After enduring her Mother's shocking confessions, SJ travels to Texas seeking comfort from Kez only to realize the dangerous realities of their pasts have come between them.

Chapter 10: Strapped


Chapter 11: The Beautiful Insanity

Waimano Falls O’ahu, Hawai’i March 11, 2022

San Diego, CA - March 8, 2022 with Ceci Los Angeles - March 10 with Ceci

Spring Break with Cecilia takes an unexpected turn from a deeply nostalgic visit to Legoland to an impulsive blast through Los Angeles where Cecilia remembers life with her daddy.